If no one minds if I throw in my two cents. (Well maybe more)
All arguments sounds great from all sides. In the end, I do not see it as a problem with the one free gift at Adren and Elder.
To throw a monkey wrench into Dan's example, which was well made.
Garou can learn rites as long as they are readily avaliable at no cost of experience.
Think of the math with all the Garou who learn rites and compare that to experience.
It is not worth arguing over because it is not always that game balance breaking (within reason, I am not saying that a cliath ragabash should get access to the rite of the silver lake with ease.... or at all.)
Yours truly,
Mr. sometimes knows too much (or too little) for his own good.